If this life were a dream, how would you shape it? If you could have the potential to make it anything; to be anyone; to go anywhere, how would you do it?
Limits and ceilings are all self-imposed. For the majority of us, "I can't" is really just an "I won't", for if your will is able and your health is strong, social, mental, and physical limitations are not end caps. They are stepping stones.
Our thoughts and attitude are the only thing stopping us from achieving/gaining/being what we desire. I know that sounds like some new age bullcrap but we live it, guys. We live it every day.
You shape your own reality.
You create your own experiences.
The words your mind thinks become the house your heart lives in.
If you're not living in a way that makes you happy, simply change the way you live.