06. The Lovers
This year’s focus will be on your RELATIONSHIPS.
Everything we are, everything we do, everything we connect to creates a relationship. We are in a relationship with our work just as much as we are with our partners. We form a relationship with our self-image through the relationships of our friendships. What we feel and the language we use about our homes, our bedrooms, our furnishings, our cars; our wardrobes, our income, and our collections of bits and bobbles, these are all microcosms of the greater relationship that we have with life. Make no mistake: every single component of it matters.
Love is the primary nutrient from which all of the healthiest aspects of our relationships must grow. Love is not automatic. It is earned through time, test, and toil. Therefore Love in all its forms, given and received, must be respected. We must learn how to be in love without losing ourselves. To respect what we have before we grasp for different or for more. To Love wholly and unconditionally those we have promised; the ones we let in, and the ones we let go.
Love is such a complex and beautiful emotion. It moves our heart and stirs our souls in a way only the purest form of magic can. Love is magic. It is the greatest form of healing power one can extend and withhold. It expands the energy of everyone or everything we give our Love to.
This year, the Universe will ask you to evaluate all you’ve chosen to be in relationship with. It asks us put into question whether we’ve filled our life with relationships that we’ve chosen to tolerate, or relationships we’ve chosen to Love. For many of us, it’s both. For some of us, the answer may be neither. In any regard, we must be ready to ask ourselves perhaps the most important question of all: what are willing to do about it? Will we a call a relationship in? Hold the one we have close? Will we love what’s ours deeper? Will we free it, be it, exonerate it, or let it go? The quality of our life depends on the clarity of our relationships. So, get clear. Then, get lovin’.
Challenges: intolerance, disconnection, complicated extremes, imbalance, insecurity
Blessings: soul connection, intimacy, trust, partnership, love, safety, security, vulnerability